Hi Bug Here is the email. I would rather not contact him at all for awhile longer so that he gets to feel free of me but i want to get this house project underway.
After the anni no show I sent an email similar in tone about taking a time out, not changing any of our current financial arrangements and where did he want the mail sent from now on. He replied that he could pass by the house when i wasn't there if i didnt want to see him to pick up mail. He also put some emotional stuff in about his nightmare and not knowing what he was doing and that he loved me.
HERE IS MY DRAFT Any amends gratefully received
Hi H Before I went away I asked if the contractor could reduce the price. It is now requoted at £x (700 less) I still think it’s a bit high but neither of us have the time to get alternative quotes. Is this ok with you?
I know you will be tired from flying in from xxx right now and could do without making a decision about the work on the house but when you get a minute please would you let me know what you think, I don’t want to spend our money without your agreement.
There’s also a bunch of mail here for you – I think some of it is xxxx. Do you want me to open it?
Thanks, T
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"