Did you send it already? Sometimes it's good to post those here to get a few different sets of eyes on things. I had such a control issue that I would write things and not realize how controlling they sounded. Other people pick that stuff up quickly.
You lamented in an earlier post that you might never get the chance to talk this out. Start believing that to be true and keep the focus on you. Actions speak louder than words. Seeing you change will be much more effective but there are no guarantees.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
