Originally Posted By: Starsky309
I've posted often that I think it's an EXTREMELY unhealthy dynamic when one spouse is cheating, the other spouse KNOWS that they're cheating, and the cheating spouse KNOWS that they know that they're cheating . . . and says/does nothing.



Your sitch is a bit of a gray area, I'll admit Alk. In that we all agree here that your wife is almost certainly in at least an inappropriate EA (if not more), you definitely know, and we THINK she probably knows that you know.

Gray area.


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)