LA, these are great issues to explore with your IC. I think I tended to say I'm either happy or unhappy based on my M, but after starting Codependent No More, I'm figuring out I'm unhappy because of what I have done to myself. Time to get my own identity back. Have you looked at that book? I can't remember if you have or not.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together