Mandy, your H's statements sound like my H's. He would say he really enjoyed being single. But now he says he's ready to "date" other women, and that being officially married is a turn off. The physical distance is what you need, or you can still see him and do fun stuff, casual stuff, but no "hookups." Try to keep the conv away from the relationship. My H was saying he wanted to be single for over a year, so five weeks seem like nothing (now.) In the past, a day seemed too long. Like someone said on this board, our S's new behaviors soon become the "new normal." Yes, it stinks. I know... Hang in there.