Originally Posted By: AS
In 25 years I've probably had a big shouting match with W half a dozen times


Hi AS,

I was taken by the above quote, along with your statement that your wife kept issues "bottled up". My wife of 29 years and I were always best friends, and still are. Did everything together and almost never had arguments, yet she now says she is not in love with me. Andrew Marshall makes a case in this book that we didn't argue enough, and didn't have productive arguments. It makes sense to me, see what you think.

http://www.andrewgmarshall.com/i-love-you-but-im-not-in-love-with-you/

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl