Hi, all, thanks so much for the comments. My H did call the registration couple today and talked to the husband and came away much reassured that it wouldn't be too religious. He was also reassured that he wouldn't be forced to recommit to the marriage or risk damnation. The husband said that wouldn't happen, that they respect choices. My H did echo Breakdown's sentiment that the website made it look different than the program really was. So now my H seems excited about going again and he called me right after their talk to tell me all about it. Prays be and amen BTW, my H is super super spiritual generally. He just doesn't respect the hypocrisy etc of many religious institutions.
25, no my H isn't looking for a younger honey and I've raised the issue about him being alone. He just says he wants to do his own thing and not have to be on time for family dinners, for example.
So we are in track to go to the program that starts three weeks from today. I am looking forward to working on myself and spending some time with H.
I want to thank all of you for weighing in and providing reassurance, I dont have much of a support network otherwise. I love and esteem you all.
BTW, my H is super super spiritual generally. He just doesn't respect the hypocrisy etc of many religious institutions. 