I know this is a late response, but I did want to touch on this from my perspective:
Originally Posted By: Kimmerz
This is me just complaining here, but WHY OH WHY does he still continue to text me his days off when they never change?
When I don't repsond back unless I have info about the kids he needs to know?
And then when I do give him that info, he doesn't respond to me?
Except for the part about randomly contacting... I was going to say my W has stopped doing that, but that's not true... while it WAS news to me when she mentioned something by email to me, it very certainly would have become known to me with a 24 hour period...
Anyhow, I wanted to just let you know that, 2.5 years into my sitch, my W is still doing the above.
You've got great responses of course, you have a great crew of vets following you. Bea's response that her ex still does the same, 7 years later... speaks volumes... it's what they do...
Keep working on detaching from that. For me, it just sort of happened that I stopped thinking about it. So now, I can relate that this stuff DOES still happen... I just don't even realize it, until I actually think about it.
So like I said, just wanted to share another "been there, still there" piece.
