OK, color me confused: I thought when she came down was when you planned on having "The Confront" with her??? The "I never had any interest in sharing my wife with another man, and I know all about you and _________" speech?
What did I miss?
Actually, you missed the last communication we had until yesterday... The text message exchange which she asked that I not be in town when she moved out so it would be "easier and as stress-free as possible". When I kept trying to suggest that she come down alone for us to have the talk, she insisted otherwise... I could have sworn you were helping with advice during that time, but I may be mistaken.
I'm curious though Starsky, knowing that we won't be having "the talk" when she comes down, are you now suggesting that I go ahead and reach out from the darkness?