""Don't convince yourself that a severely damaged husband/ father is better than no husband at all.""" ---- Thanks AS I needed to hear that.

Your H is not functioning either due to dependency issues or depression. You can not fix that, check out Alanon. You H has to hit bottom with what ever demons are taking over his mind right now

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13