i don't think i can answer your question...i don't know. But i do relate to the feelings you are going through right now.
The lies are....well simply an almost unbearable burden...and worse are the ones we know about that they don't know we know.
HOWEVER...it seems your H is at least aware of the pain his actions have had on you. He responds...(I know in my sitch at least H has not once acknowledged my hurt or pain...in fact he has ignored it...which adds another layer of hurt).
its small in the face of the lies i know, but its there.
Thinking of you vero ((((( ))))
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home