Originally Posted By: chatterbug

On a side note.

I would not give her the speech... It will fall on deaf ears. Just something else to blame. As she has made her position on the matter quite clear since early in the relationship.

It is truly our friend here who needs to decide if he wants to remain married to a woman who does want an open marriage.


Just out of curiosity Chatter, are you advocating that everyone just walk away from a spouse who is actively in an affair, or is dating during a separation?

Not criticizing, just wondering... I mean, if I had done that, I wouldn't be working on my M today.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce