I am still shocked he would let his cheating wayward wife full access to the house, alone with company.... I know I would be there.

I also know that everything would have been moved to the garage for quick access.

I would not life a finger to help and anything left over I would say the following ?

"This garbage or are you taking it today?"

If the answer was garage. I would say.

"Then bag it and move it to the street"


But that is just me. And yes I had to deal with this situation as well. And I stayed in the house to make sure nothing extra was taken or damaged.

I am not a Storage Facility for garbage.




On a side note.

I would not give her the speech... It will fall on deaf ears. Just something else to blame. As she has made her position on the matter quite clear since early in the relationship.

It is truly our friend here who needs to decide if he wants to remain married to a woman who does want an open marriage.


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