I'd give you the same advice I usually give people in this situation:

Keep separate residences, and ask him to "court" you for a period of time -- say 6 months. You guys can either agree to date exclusively or not exclusively, but don't allow him back into your home -- nor your heart (especially your DAUGHTER'S day-to-day life!) . . . too easily.

Make him WORK FOR YOU. Slow and steady as she goes . . .


Starsky


M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)