She may not know. It may be an attempt to control something she isn’t in control of. I don’t think she fears something you may do.

My X has no reason to fear yet she is still attempting keep secret her address. It is a futile effort. I never went looking. Eventually her address was made available to me through her attempts to have joint bank statements forwarded. Even after I sent documents to her for her signature she is telling the kids she is safe as long as I don’t know where she lives.

Don’t waste your energy attempting to determine why she is doing what she is doing. Some of the actions people do have no basis in logic, particularly when they are in crisis.


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill