Fade has a good post and point...you want to document all this but maybe save it for the "Last, last resort" technique (that's what I did and am doing). We do need to protect ourselves and our kids.
I am so happy for you that you may get to move back home.
That will certainly change the dynamics of all this...she won't be able to hide as well, if her family likes you, then they "may" have some influence on her, especially if they run more "traditional" wise...
That in mind, you may want to continue thinking about sharing the Uhaul. I have read several sitches here where being the neighborly, "best friend" has really helped turn things around. You know, honey, vinegar, flies...
Also, doing a "project" together with a common goal (getting back home) can be bonding (my W and I are doing that to good effect lately, as long as I am patient)...but then again it can also be a disaster...YMMV.
Just some things to consider.
I'm liking the stronger PW, btw...
Make sure to feel THROUGH the anger and not get bitter or resentful...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
