Originally Posted By: chatterbug
Dobson may not work well with chronic health problems and depression. It may. Not too sure.


Thanks for pointing out and I certainly agree with you. I only meant it in the context of reading it to learn that the LBS is not the guilty part even though they often feel that way (I know I did). The LBS is the one that's doing everything to save the marriage, the WAS is the one who is throwing it all away. Even though the LBS may have played some part in the WAS wanting to leave, the bottom line is the LBS is willing to work at it and the WAS isn't. Therefore as Dobson points out, the guilt and fault lie with the WAS, not the LBS.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57