Thanks Brian,
I'll look you up.

Yes, I haven't had too many people respond to my situation. Not sure why. Maybe because I've been in this so long and am not really struggling with everything that happens when you first find out. I'm still struggling though.

I think I'm at the point now where some friends/family are just wondering why I don't get this over with already, why I'm resisting. My SIL thinks it's silly to "stay together for the kids". I try to explain that's not what I'm doing. Do I think my kids deserve a mom and dad at home together, yes. Saying that though assumes I want the same relationship with H as we had before. That's the LAST thing I want. I really say very little about my situation to anyone except my therapist and this board.

I gain a lot though from reading everyone elses situations though. I just feel bad sometimes not offering anything up when I've gained a lot.

Oh well.

Yes, I will probably take S camping again (if he'll let me) smile We had a good time. Maybe D will find some time in her busy schedule to join us.

Thanks for taking an interest in me. I definitely appreciate input from someone who's been through the same thing.

Have a great weekend!!!


M:45/H43
T:21/M19
D:18
S:11
Bomb:8/10- I'm just not "happy"
H Moves in with mom: 8/10
H Files: 3/11
Now lives with? OW/GF no clue
Nothing finalized...