Dobson may not work well with chronic health problems and depression. It may. Not too sure.

I think you need to do damage control on fiances and make sure that he cannot go out on a few weeks long bender and destroy your finances.

I would also look at cutting off his credit. And start laying down some boundaries and enforcing them.

He needs to want to help or hit rock bottom.

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