Need Retrouvaille Advice

[25yearsmlc]

Unb,

if your h is an absolute atheist, he MIGHT be turned off but gosh, I just don't recall that much about theology there.

I THINK we may have prayed about finding our way back to each other but for sure it's not a memory that stands out to me.

We listened to some tough marital histories but from people who were making it work, and said "it's worth it"

and their problems made ours look like peanuts.

But if your h is in some funk and bi=polar deal, then just get there and hope God leads him to getting some help.

Does your h really want his last years to be spent alone? B/C it sounds like that's where his choices would lead him

unless he's under the delusion that some 30 y/o is out there waiting to meet him...(and if there is, she'll want some serious money to go w/that so, I don't think he's realistic).

Or healthy...so I'm sending prayers your way...