He had promised no more contact. He said he did NC for awhile then when he saw her they started talking. Thinks there is nothing wrong with that.
Nowhere have I read or heard where "just friends" with the OP is "okay" after the end of A. Nowhere.
It is very common, almost guaranteed, for one or the other affair partner to try and contact the other after NC. I know a couple of my W's OMs are still trying to pull her back in...
You did what you needed to do and I support you. Very telling H's responses were. I reckon he may not like the bed he made by starting contact again...
Stay strong!
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
