Thank you Starsky. I know I am not there. I guess I can honestly say Im afraid to let him go. Hey - Im being honest, right? Something I wasnt at the end of our relationship.
Since you are a believer, a couple of things you may want to think about, MrsD. Have you thought about praying and asking God to either help soften your ex-husband's heart toward you, OR to take away your feelings for him, so that you can heal? Whichever one His perfect will is for your life?
It's a scary prayer, I know, but think about it . . .do you REALLY want something that isn't what GOD wants for your life, anyway?
The other thing you can pray for is specifically for help with LOSING THE FEAR. If you feel that that is at the root of much of your stuck-ness, then that seems to be like it'd be a logical place to start.
God didn't create us with a spirit of fear, but of boldness and courage and love.
