Why would a 58 yr old want to start raising someone else's kids? So I'm thinking it's all about the sex and when that fizzles he will come to his senses.
Don't try to figure it out or apply logic to it, it'll just frustrate you and not result in any answers. He's probably in the "dopamine" phase still. When you start a new relationship there's a big release of dopamine into the system, it gives you those "puppy love" feelings and blocks you from seeing things logically. It can last anywhere from 3 to 6 months, and when the dopamine release stops then suddenly reality hits home like a brick and you realize that the new situation is no better and may even be worse. Most affairs end within 6 months, this is why.
Originally Posted By: Snookee
So I exercise and go out sometimes with friends and go to work.
Good! That's the right thing to do, GAL. At first you may have to force yourself, but the more you do it the more you'll enjoy it and want to do it just for fun.
