best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

Thanks cadet, you are 100%, right. I do not want her back unless she chooses it of her own free will.

I do feel like I am on the right path for myself. I am happier than I have been in awhile. Lonely at times but nothing that I can't handle, nothing that this website can't help. I do find it kind of amusing that a wife can leave, then be shown nothing but kindness and contentment by her LBH, and show coldness and resentment in return. I guess it goes to show how much pain and confusion that they are in. Also want to say thank you for reposting the lighthouse story on another thread. It will become daily reading for me.