Your quote got me thinking. I've also questioned my desire to stay with my H. I think it's understandable for everyone whose S had had an A. Unless the S really shows remorse and wants to work on the M, how are we supposed to heal and move forward? Your W is far from that point. My H said he was sorry but he has not been committed to our M for 2 years. Can this really change? I go back to what I wrote on my thread, about the possibility of this nightmare happening all over again in 2, 5, or 10 years.
I want to save my M because I love my H and truly believe we can be happy together, but he would have to feel the same way for that happy life to happen.
