Yeah, keep it up girl. Brian is right though. You(I) have to stop worrying about him (her), as hard as it is (believe me I know - I'm in the same boat, so to speak). It's only then that you can really focus on yourself, for yourself. I know. Today I had my C telling me I was obsessive about W. I still don't think I am but I do think about her a lot.
What I did tell my C is that I have a plan and I'm determined. The same way a med student has his eye on grad day and puts all his efforts on the work that needs to be done, I put my efforts on what I need to do, keeping my eye on the prize. The thing is, what I need to do is work on myself. Not worry about every little thing my W does or where she is at any given time.

Take care MrsD

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then