That you can CONTROL her into changing and LOVING YOU?
Is that what you would really want if it would work?
You make the changes for YOU, so YOU are a better person. Why did your wife fall in love with you when you met? Be THAT person. She will either love you again or not.
But the specific answer to your question is dont pursue to try to win her back. Stay detached. Speak with ACTIONS not WORDS.
