Not sure what DLS was thinking when that got posted
Have you read the posts by Cadet? If not, go back and read them again and again until they make more sense.
As for what to do? That my friend, is your decision. Nobody here can tell you the outcome, but I will strongly suggest that you do what you can live with.
I do NOT suggest you move out as you posted in one of your other threads. Just my suggestion though. Again, you have to do what's right for YOU and your family.
Keep something in mind as you decide. This is not about you. Not in any way shape or form. I know the story you told for the most part.
Read. Read as much as you can on these boards.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."