Thank you for your kind words NG. I appreciate them.
Denver…..Retrovaille was quite an experience. It helped my W and I learn to communicate in a different way and a different level. Apparently I can express my feelings better on paper than I can verbally. Lol
It was some serious work. We came away from the weekend emotionally exhausted. The platform and methods of dialoging are simple, yet eye opening. We touched on things that aren’t part of our everyday conversations, which helped us learn things about each other that we otherwise wouldn’t have known. Hell, I learned things about myself that I didn’t know.
If you and your W ever entertain the idea of attending, I’d highly recommend it.
There were a total of 19 couples in attendance and 3 presenting couples. The presenting couples shared their experiences, which says a lot about how much they believe in the program. Their situations made my situation look like a walk in the park, so it was quite inspirational.
On Friday night when the program began, I could feel that some couples had little to no hope. At the end of the program on Sunday, you could see and feel the transformation in some of their relationships. It was profound. To be clear, this didn’t happen for every couple. All things considered, it was an overall success for most everyone in attendance.
We have our first post date this Saturday. I’m looking forward to it.
Hopefully you didn’t notice that I told you a lot without telling you anything.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
