Thanks, 25. Honestly, he is older and wants to spend the rest of his life searching for enlightenment without being burdened by family. Which is odd because he has no money and will have to work while he searches and he actually cried today saying how much he missed my kids. So it seems a bit like he's going through a late-life crisis of generativity. We are also both very smart and clashed some when trying to agree on things and therefore thinks that we don't get along fundamentally. Yet, other times he's said that I was the woman who's understood and cared for him the most and that he's never met anyone less manipulative. So I am really at a loss as to how to get things unstuck ...
