A friend of ours called and asked if I was going to an airshow in 2 weeks. My H is in a BBQ competition at the airshow, so she called him to see if I was going and he said, I don't know, call her. I would love to go to see the airshow, but also to support H and be there if his team wins. However, I would keep a low profile during the event so I didn't cause him stress.
I've had posts telling me not to worry about making him mad. Any thoughts on whether I should tell him I would like to go with the friend, that we will go for the day, and that I will stay out of his hair during the competition? Or do I just go?
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
