I would wait until about 1am tonite, and then reply "Sorry, busy day. Yeah, that following weekend would be fine. You wouldn't be coming down until Saturday, right?
Just let me know -- thanks!"
I agree, but without the question mark.
"Sorry, busy day. Yeah, that following weekend would be fine. As long as you won't be coming down until Saturday. Let me know if you are planning on coming in earlier."
For me personally, I always found it more productive to put the ball in my W's court to keep the conversation going. When we were in these 'dark' periods, I tried to avoid asking any questions.
Minor point though.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce