So here's my story part 2

[Denver_2010]

Denver, if you don't mind me asking. What kind of law do you practice?

Mostly criminal defense afa.

It dumbfounds me that your W even considers staying in your home as an option. She IS DATING ANOTHER MAN. She is rejecting you, the M, and your family. Why does she believe that she is still entitled to the benefits of those things?

I have no problem with you continuing to be kind to her, polite, loving from a distance. In fact, I think that that's the right thing to do if you want to DB and save your M. But I just don't see any way possible that this goes in a positive direction until she is out of the house and forced to live some of the consequences of her choices.

She got angry with you for inquiring into where the money for the bed was going to come from? That's to be expected afa. If you stand up for yourself and ultimately have boundaries for yourself, she is going to be angry at times. Why? Because she will not be getting her way. The plans for how she has envisioned that this will go will not be going the way that she wanted. This is unavoidable afa. This is going to get worse before it gets better my friend.

Denver