Do i tell her she looks pretty or some other such compliment?
Sure, if you mean it. Have you read DB and DR? If so, what are your 180's? If you've neglected to tell her how nice she looks, etc. over the years, then doing so now is a 180 for you and you should do it. Absolutely no "I love you" though. That's pressure, because she doesn't love you (or thinks she doesn't), so when you tell her that it is in contrast to what she feels and she will perceive it as pressure.
Originally Posted By: Am I Too Late
At what point do i ever broach the subject about going back to marriage counseling or a seminar retreat such as Retrovaille?
As 25 said, only if she brings it up first. Do not initiate any relationship, divorce, or separation talks. Keep everything light and fluffy. Be her best friend. Listen to her, don't talk much. When you do talk, do not make it about you. Do not argue or disagree with anything she says. Validate her emotions. Make lots of eye contact. Lean forward like you're really listening intently. Review the 34 DB 180 tips before she comes over and repeat them in your head while conversing with her. Stick to the game plan.
