She will say anything and make all kind of excuses and have a ton of reasons why your wrong. She's gonna start convincing you that your paranoid (paranoia is there for a reason).
Check out the term gaslighting before you start doubting yourself. I started too and it took a lot out of me.
Accept and pick yourself up and work on you. Your a man not a doormat.
I genuinely mean this. Good luck, stay strong font start believing her or second guessing yourself. Detach now before ya get too deep into the mess of a wife lying about an affair. She'll do and say anything to keep it going.
Kevin
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now