I haven't read your thread but I can say this, you can't change him so don't worry about what he's going to do to work on himself.

You have your work to do. Focus on you. As long as you are worrying about what he's doing, you aren't focusing on you. You have no control over him. If he's done, he's done. You still need to work on you.

I know this is difficult but you will get through it. What are you doing for you?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss