"I still get hugs and have a good day but me pulling back hard hasn't really drawn her in yet. I don't know how long I should keep pulling back without posative results. "
Any thoughts on this comment I made above? No ILy's of kisses in almost a week now. Should I take the pullback from her as a sign that I am doing something wrong or is a week just too short of a time to judge?
Try a month of actual pullback. It's nothing fancy, but not thinking about it and doing whatever you should be doing and taking care of yourself. If she is interested she will show interest, but you cannot make her be interested.
