The couples talk, and You listen. Then you either directly /privately communicate with your spouse
OR
you go off by yourself and write...THEN LATER you share what you wrote w/your spouse, again, in private.
I cannot imagine or recall an "activity" that one would have to bow out of for religious reasons. There's no public sharing, although a few people at the end wanted to comment. NO ONE HAS to do that.
Honestly I think the fears are wildly misplaced. But like I said, we went here...
25 speaks the truth.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!