So what you're saying is that if he says he doesn't care, even if I know he does, just shrug my shoulders and move on? He's always expected me to be a mind reader. Hmmm, I'll have to think this over. At this point, I don't know that he can acutally rationalize the fact that his commentary is what caused the problem. His normal response is to accuse me to intentionally making him mad.
I also recognize that this is probably a test because I've been so calm, even after calling him out on phone call. In hindsight, I think I recongize that when he said I don't care, I should have foreseen the spew if I asked anything further. I think I am starting to get a better read on his facial expessions.
And you are right, it is not my fault. I see how preconditioned I am.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together