"I asked him what he wanted me to do and he said he didn't care." stop here. he doesn't care. make the decision yourself and execute. you don't even have to tell him what you decided. he doesn't care. pushing to engage just made him angry.
I honestly thought about this SS. The old me would pull the trigger without consulting him and taking his opinions into account. I would have bought the new dryer and felt the wrath at some point. I actually think he does care. If he didn't, he wouldn't have spewed about my spending money and putting perfectly good things at the curb.
You are correct about the insurance cards and I realized that after the fact. Another reason why I am going to have to pull back. I think I have to acknowledge to myself that I will almost have to ignore him.
I will continue to try to read my books at night and try not to be in the same room as him.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together
