She was 3 months shy of her 33rd birthday when her mom died. I read up alot about womans Pre-Midlife Crisis on a forum run by a woman named Shepherdess. Alot of it makes sense.

Also, from some psych evaluation tests we took, she scored at the 90 percent of traits for Borderline Personality Traits, which she said her mom was at one time diagnosed to have. So what. She did not exhibit any signs of that for the 1st 8 years we were happily together. Im not sure that even matters, so i dont care.

Im just filling in as much background details as i can for you folks to understand and hopefully help out.

Oh, her dad was diagnosed with cancer last fall, 2011. She visited him alot from then through April 28th when he too passed away. All of her recent major life altering decisions occurred when her parents died or were near death.

Ed


Me, 55 W, 36
T, 10 yrs
S-9
M, 8 yrs
1st D-Day, 9-27-2009, With 1st bf, ea/pa
2nd D-Day, 12-5-2009, With her best friends bf, ea/pa
W, AA relapse early 2009-Current
W moved out 2-16-2012
New OM 5-2012