You opened my eyes to an option I had not previously considered. Not in depth at least. I'm not a details type of guy. More of a generalist, so your step by step certainly helped unclear some fog.
I have a job waiting on me "back home". My choice of 3 actually.
I'm kind of a big deal. I have many leather bound books.
Just kidding I'm pretty humble.
Looks like my wishes, prayers, whathaveyou, may be answered. I'm 90% sure W is getting the transfer. I will know for certain in a couple of weeks.
Words can't describe how pumped I am. I'm ready to start packing.
W mentioned something about how we could load our 2 households into one moving van. I did not respond. She didn't ask for a response anyway, so it wasn't awkward. I have thought about this a little. I'm not sure I want to do that.
I will never use a moving company again. The movers were great and all. They took good care of our stuff. But they changed the pick-up date twice. Then they changed the delivery date twice. They ended up keeping our stuff a week and a half longer than they had told us. Anyway, they have got u by the balls. They have your stuff, and if you want it back you have to pay them. The law is on their side. I checked. And my experience happens pretty often.
So long story short, I will be moving my own stuff. I think W wants to throw her stuff in my U-Haul and split the cost.
On the one hand I see where it would be neighborly.
On the other, its not my problem how her stuff gets back. And I don't want to load it or unload it. Its not my stuff.
She will probably fume. Her folks will probably think its a jerk move. But I lean heavily toward "so what".
I'm pretty humble.
