A couple of things that I forgot in my last update:
1) several weeks ago, W, out of the blue, just offered up our cell phone online password. For those that don't know, our cell phone plan is in her name and control. She changed the password nearly 2 years ago when I busted her EA with OM and confronted her. I have never asked about it.
2) While I have not used the cell phone password, I have had several opportunities to look at her text messages and her emails. It's almost like my W is leaving her phone there for me to snoop. She types the unlock code right in front of me, never appears to hide the phone, and tends to leave it lying around the house. I know that she knows. In any case, I have seen no sign of OM with anything that I have looked at.
3) She has an inaccurate memory of our 18 months S... extremely inaccurate memory of it. Just little things that happened, times when she was not around because we were not talking and she was off doing her own thing... I won't list them here because they really are of no consequence now. I just find it strange. I just shake my head and say 'okay, if that's the way you remember it'. It is truly as if she was in another world during that time. A different person.
LOL... That is all.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce