Mandy, FYI, I thought being intimate with my H would help us reconnect-that was last year. I didn't know he was having an A. Lots of intimacy but no reconnection. This time around, no intimacy at all. And you know what? I'm very glad I chose this route. He adjusted to me saying no, and I stopped feeling like trash every time we did it and he left me to go back to his place. Think about it.
