Like most people, you'll experience back & forth emotions from your own attitude. The majority here are LBS. They can help you as you progress. Me.....I can tell you what usually doesn't work to draw the WAW back. The harder you try to be around her, trying to stay as close as possible, or being available for whatever comes up.....the harder she'll work to push the M apart.
Don't panic when she talks about a D. Don't feel that everything she says needs a response from you. So she makes statements that cause you to nearly freak, so what? If she accuses you of being mad and not talking just b/c you don't reply.....tell her you didn't know how to respond to her statement.
Be ready to see things get worse before they get better. But they can get better. Your M can be saved. "Time".....that four letter word! You'll hear it quite often on the board.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
