Thanks so much Wendy for reading my post & for your advice.
I've been feeling abit alone on the board.
Abit confused w your reply tho did you mean do not try to make a meet up?
Rather let him lead for a change? I think that will be good for both of us.

What I was trying to stop was txt convos as I get abit panicky when he stops answering when I said I'd rather see/phone him. At least at those times I know when its ended as we say 'bye'!

I've been rereading mlc stuff & I'm sure that's what H is going through. I just haven't always responded v well.
I really hope I can do better in the nxt cycle, if there is one.

Tumbling

ME41 H39
T12 M9
Ilybinilwy 10/2010
H moves out 11/2010
H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011
Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012
Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-)
"Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"