Thanks Crazyville! Your comments have been helpful! It made me realize how truly had this has been on her. I just did not get it. I thought that being married was having someone there to support you no matter what. For better or worse. But I have realized that involving her in any of it has been such an emotional drain on her and a crushing burden to her.

I have also made peace with the fact that no matter what I do at this point she needs to look out for herself and her boys. If that means she needs to completly end our relationship then I need to support her decisions.

For now I keep living my life and as Rick said above have no expectations.


M-45
W-44
2D - 11&13
2SS - 11&17
Married 10/10/10
Bomb 3/5/12
Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12
Back together 9/12
Seperated 6/13
Divorce Final 11/13/13