Thanks to both of you for the encouragement. Your exactly right no need to borrow problems from tomorrow i've got enough to worry about right now.
MrsD: At this point im almost sure she doesn't have anything going on the side....just don't think she wants anything with me either, but your exactly right I have no idea whats going on in her head and maybe she's starting to think she would like something with me who knows. I know im doing the right things, that part is certain.