Hi Jackie - Things seem to be going so well for you and H. You both seem to be trying and doing an excellent job. What a gift to go on a vacation together! I sretrovaille a possibility?

Try not to beat yourself up about saying this or that every once in a while (should listen to myself here, right? ). You have some really important insights on your sitch, which is a huge step towards getting more and more on solid ground.

Thank you for your post on my thread. I appreciate so much your encouragement and support.

Here's a tulip form my yard and a hug (((((((Jackie))))) for you. Have a great trip, and give us the updates when you get back.

KAW - what great suggestions about bringing the vacation feeling into everyday life! Also, wonderful post on how we look for our spouse to "say" what we need to hear in a certain way. Thank you for your post.


Mockers2 "Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche