Originally Posted By: roughenough
Before we got our Labrador I had a Rottweiler for 12 years, she was such an awesome dog. After she died I couldn’t stand to look at pictures of her, it just hurt too much. I know it sounds like a silly comparison but I am experiencing the same thing with my W. It’s like she died and I really don’t like seeing pictures of W right now. Every now and then I might see a pic of her on FB or she might email me some pictures of her and the kids and I have to look away as quickly as possible. I guess I don’t like to look at things that give me negative feeling. I know this might sounds ridiculous but that’s just how I work.

On another note, a coworker came up to me today and said, “Hey rough, did you see that smokin hot chick downstairs this morning?” I know the women he’s talking about and yes, she’s a hotty with a naughty body. Here’s the thing, I see these hot chicks and I feel none of them compare to my W.



Totally get it Rough. I was the same.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce